If you are worried that your spouse is cheating on you but don’t want to confront them until you have hard evidence, there is advanced mobile spy software available that can help you. You should review your feelings and try to understand what gives you the feeling that your spouse is cheating.
Potential Cheating Red Flags
The following are some of the potential red flags to be on the lookout for when trying to determine whether your spouse is cheating on you.
They put a password on their phone and always have it in their hands. While having a password is not a big issue, it is if your spouse never used one before. Another sign is whenever their phone rings or they get a message they head over to the bathroom to respond. This type of covert activity could happen near your birthday if the spouse is “planning” a birthday party but aside from that, you should treat it as a red flag.
Spouse has changed their exercise routine and is going out with friends often. Typically when two people are in a relationship they will try to maintain their appearance but not enhance it since they feel “comfortable”, if your spouse has changed his/her wardrobe to be more attractive then that should be a cause for concern. This new change in wardrobe is also troubling if you notice your spouse is going out with the girls/boys often and you are not allowed to come along. Granted coworkers need time to blow off steam but if it happens often there is a good chance your spouse is on the prowl or has found someone new, in either case, you should be concerned.
These are just a few red flags, however, you should always trust your gut instinct. If something doesn’t feel right then you are probably dealing with a cheater.
Using Advanced Mobile Spy Software to Catch a Cheater
Your spouse could be a very effective communicator and make you think that you are “over-reacting” and nothing is wrong, perhaps there is nothing wrong but you want and deserve proof. This is where technology comes into the picture. There are specialized applications that will covertly monitor what your spouse is doing. What you need to do is install the software on the phone of your spouse without them being aware of it, this will take some planning on your end but an opportunity will present itself. When the software is installed your spouse will not be aware of it running in the background. You will be able to access the data captured by this application and see whether your spouse is sending messages to someone she shouldn’t be communicating with. There will be some people who claim this is an invasion of your spouse’s privacy but it’s a lot cheaper than hiring a private investigator and will save you the expense of being in a relationship with someone who is not faithful. If it turns out your spouse is cheating on you then the next step should be planning your exit strategy knowing they cannot be trusted.